How to Remind Yourself You’re Worthy of Love.

You are made of LOVE I used to think I was only worth what society told me I was. When I felt judged I instantly...

8 Real Signs the Guy You’re Dating is Using You For Your Friends

I’m not one to judge people’s character, but recent experiences have gotten me to change my tune. Friendships are deeply important to me—so are...

10 Signs You’re Actually a Gay Introvert (Even Though You Try Not to Be)

Introverts get a bad rap, man. Gay guys typically say they want to marry an introvert but would rather sex with extroverts. Trouble is,...

How To Make A Good Impression On Your Date

I’ve been on tons of dates—both great and utterly disastrous. By far the best ones I’ve ever had shared common threads: they were about...

Are Some Gay Guys Made to be a Bottom?

The search for SUPER BOTTOMS: Is there a “Bottoming Gene”? When it comes to bottoming, we’ve all met those gay guys who seem to be...

Why 20-Something Gay Guys Need to Get Over Their Quarter-Life Crisis

If youth and beauty were things we cared about, you’d think 25-year olds would stop bitching already. But in today’s world everyone has to...

How to Survive a Gay Breakup

It’s Never Going to be Easy… Nothing good has ever happened without the demise of something else equally as great. In order to experience the...

What to do When Your Man is Too Aggressive in Bed

I’ve dated some pretty aggressive tops and real aggressive bottoms in my life. Don’t get me wrong, there were days when I wanted to...

Can Gay Guys Have a Romantic Relationship Without Sex?

As I listen to the sounds of my man taking a shower after a long (and I mean long) session of love making, I...

How to Stop Sabotaging Yourself

The greatest motto any human being can have is: “SO WHAT!” Human beings know how to be afraid. We taught ourselves to always be on...