No Strings Attached…

We are brought up knowing that certain things need to be separated. For laundry it is our whites from our colors, for our politics...

Why Single Gay Men Shouldn’t Be In A Hurry To Find LOVE

Above all things, love has been one of humanity’s strongest desires. We crave it in our very core. Its ups, its downs, and its...

“Making It” In The Gay Scene

When I moved to Los Angeles, I didn’t know a soul in the world. I quickly learned that to make it in this town,...

Does Free Speech Give Us The Right To Be Ignorant?

Growing up in the Bible belt, the First Amendment was something I heard a lot. The ability to express how you feel without the...

Robert De Niro Opens Up About His Gay Father

Robert De Niro is famous for maintaining his private life. Nearly every actor who’s worked with him describes him as the silent loner type....

The Homophobic Blame Game

Human beings are always looking for someone to blame. Whether it’s people within their own community, people outside their community, the atmosphere in which...

Smoking May Increase The Likelihood Of A Baby Being Gay

It’s easy to blame the mother. After all, therapists do it all the time. But new studies are taking it to a new level....

Boyfriend Sharing: Is It How Gay Men Hardwired?

For years I’ve humored the idea of boyfriend sharing, and for years I’ve dismissed it like a poisonous thought. But no matter how much...

Appreciating True Beauty In Yourself & Others

Growing up, my mother made an effort to make her children feel special. Every night before we went to bed, my sister and I...

Can Gay Cliques Play Nice With Others?

We all have a mean girl inside of us whether we care to admit it or not. It’s hard enough to make friends in...