How to Smile When the World Seems Sad

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Sometimes the world seems to stop spinning. The laughter, joy and everything in between filters away to leave only darkness; and no matter how happy you think you are there always seems to be a gravitational pull towards the ground.

It’s easy to throw in the towel—decide to give up trying to be nice to people because if you can’t be content, why should they? We forget that while we might be sad, there is always a choice to be made.

Sadness happens—it’s true. Life isn’t always going to be cherry pie. It’s okay to be sad. Today it seems like everyone tries to push it away; we deny it exists because we view it as a sign of weakness. When a person is sad, no one wants to be around them. So we fake it.

We pretend to be happy because we want friends, we want to leave a good impression, we want to be professional at being human. But the truth of the matter is we’re all human—we see right through it.

At the end of the day it’s not we who are the targets.

Happiness is easy to find because it’s a choice, but joy… joy is something innate. The root of it comes from how you perceive the world and, especially, yourself.

What is it that enslaves you? What invisible force pulls you down into a spiraling tunnel of questions and doubt? Who is it? Why is it?

The only person who can solve these questions is you. You are the only one who knows your battles—no one else. To depend on the help of others for joy is selfish because in order to do so you need to steal a bit of their joy. You need to build your own, which is simpler than you think.

Look around you. Depending on whatever thoughts are running around in your head, you might see peace or you might see conflict. The thoughts are seeds planted by you based on habit. Habits aren’t always going to be right, but it’s never too late to change them.

It starts as a smile. No one can find joy without finding a reason to smile. In spite of what’s happening in the world or in your home, a smile is the crack in which joy can be let in. Without one, our brain doesn’t know how to translate.

The truth of the matter is where there’s sadness there is also joy, for when you have one thing it’s only natural to assume there is an opposite—dark/light, up/down, hot/cold. But nothing is forever.

Sadness, anxiety, obsession is all short-term. Nothing is ever going to worry you forever because eventually you learn it’s not as bad as you thought. But in order to learn we must first have the courage to pay the time. During so, a smile might be our only way to sense a direction of where we can find the joy. So do it.

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