10 Answers You Need to Have Before Setting Me Up With Your Gay Friend


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I’m single and I don’t mind the help, trust me, but it seems like every five seconds I’m being set up on a dream blind date by friends: “I want you to be with my other gay friend. You guys would make such a cute couple!” “Oh my god, I have the perfect guy for you…” I’ve heard it more times than I can count.

Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s really sweet you want to put a Patty Stinger face on to try and play matchmaker, but at the end of the day there are answers most of us need to have—believe me, we’ve been there done that. If you want to grab my attention, try answering these questions first:

“What are his best qualities?”

It was your idea in the first place to try and set us up, not mine. Mind you, I know you’re going to say nothing but positive things because he’s your friend, I get it, so before you start telling all about how much you want us together you need to answer the why. Not to sound cocky, but I need to know why he’s worth my time.