I love me some aggression, believe you me. But every once in a while, it can turn into something bad. Too much aggression means too much power – and that can be a turn off. I do not want to be in bed with a dictator – though I certainly don’t mind roleplaying it! If you think you are too aggressive at sex, take a look at the signs honey:
#1) You become impatient every time he tries to lead.
He’s not doing a bad job necessarily, it’s just that he’s not doing it the way you want him to. He’s too slow, too fast, too this, too that. Him trying to lead can be like trusting a dog with a treasure map.
At the end of the night, he’s not going to satisfy you as much as you want him to. Sometimes you may try to manipulate the situation and edge him towards the places you want, but it’s always to no avail. You’d still rather tell him to shut the f*ck up and let you take control.