I’m the first person to admit that I’m a size queen. I love a man with a huge piece of meat inside his pants, but there comes a time where even I have limits. Even though I’ll be totally impressed by your 12-inch peen, I don’t want to ride it all night long. Despite the never-ending worship of extra large penises, I can’t help but wonder if having one is more a burden than a gift.
Most men fantasize about having a big one, that is, until you see it in person. There have been times when I’ve felt a man up in a club and was ecstatic to know I had something giant waiting for me later. It’s not until I took him home I realized what I was in for. Imagining it and playing with it are two separate things. Of course that was a long time ago.
The truth about size is that it’s completely subjective. The small minority of men who need a Magnum condom might feel better about their sex life, but in my experience it’s all about how they use it. No one can depend on size alone without proper skills. If you ask me, this is the main reason why having a bigger penis is a burden.
Just because you’re blessed with endowment doesn’t mean you’re going to be better in the sack. As someone who’s had his fair share of running around the block, I’ve had plenty of giants in my bed. Though it may have been interesting to see at first, there was hardly anything I could have done with it. And they knew it because every time they took it out, they apologized. Don’t get me wrong, I’m the kind of guy who likes to experiment but not at the sake of my comfort.
Of course I’m just one opinion. There are plenty of bottoms that love to bend it like Beckham for a giant man. But as much as we all know people like that, they’re sadly a minority. When it comes to size, I’ve come to find out that oral sex is much more enjoyable than anal sex. Let’s face it though, most men focus on penetration when it comes to sexcapades which makes wonder if size turns into a curse, can it start to affect your well being?
Most guys think big penises are a blessing, but the truth of the matter is it can be just as much a curse as well. Nothing is worse than unzipping your pants and hearing a man say, “I’m sorry… I can’t.” Before the foreplay starts, you’re already banned from entering. A giant penis is no longer a part of normal fantasies. It’s becoming a “fetish” just as much as S&M and roleplaying are.
Extra large has potential of making penetration nonexistent, at least from the stories I’ve gathered. A man’s definition of pleasure is different for everyone, which is why when a large penis finds a willing bottom it’s like finding a needle in a haystack. As an average Joe myself, I enjoy playing with an extra large man. Do I envy them? Not really. In the long run, I’m pretty sure it’s they who envy me. I’ve seen the pros and cons of all shapes and sizes and it’s safe to say that men with huge c*ks have it harder than anyone else. Regardless of how proud they may be, when push comes to shove is it they who may be getting laid the least?