Bitches are always going to be bitches, no matter what you say. The only thing any of us can do is steer the hell away from them when we see them. Trust me, I learned the hard way.
The “Bitchy Gay Guy” seems to be a prototype developed and bred by our own community. We think we enjoy it, we think we ought to take part in it, but truth be told, the charade is getting old. Fast. It’s hard standing up to someone who loves to be confrontational, but all you really need to do is take a moment and think. He wants to affect you in a negative way – that’s clear – but the second you fall into his trap, he wins. Don’t let him win. Arm yourself with tools:
#1) Use your brain, not your claws.
You’re smarter than he is – you know how I know? Because only an idiot fights with his claws. A man who is secure and confident in himself and actually takes the time to dissect a situation from beginning to end will always attack with intellect, common sense, and a creative use of words. The last thing you want to do is shrink to his level. You’re above him. Prove it by sensibly describing the situation with a cause and effect outline of the circumstance.